Kutshanje, ngokweengxelo, iintatheli ziye zafumanisa ngophando ukuba iindawo ezininzi zemidlalo, kubandakanywa iindawo zokuzilolonga kunye namachibi okuqubha, zibeka imida yobudala kubantu abadala, ngokuqhelekileyo ibeka umda kwiminyaka engama-60-70 ubudala, abanye bade bayithobe ukuya kuma-55 okanye ama-50. Ngokukhula kodumo lwemidlalo yasebusika, iindawo ezithile zokutyibiliza ekhephini zikwachaza ngokucacileyo ukuba abantu abangaphezulu kweminyaka engama-55 abavumelekanga ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo yokutyibiliza ekhephini.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, izibonelelo zemidlalo eziqhutywa yinzuzo ziye zanqanda ngokuphindaphindiweyo abantu abadala ukuba bangene.Ngo-2021, ummi ogama linguXiao Zhang eChongqing wazama ukufumana ubulungu bejim kayise kodwa wala ngenxa yemida yobudala eyayibekwe ngumqhubi wejim.Ngo-2022, ilungu elineminyaka engama-82 ubudala eNanjing lanqatshelwa ukuvuselelwa kobulungu babo kwindawo yokubhukuda ngenxa yobudala babo;oku kukhokelele kwisimangalo kunye nengqalelo yoluntu ngokubanzi.Indlela yokuqiqa phakathi kwamaziko amaninzi okuzilolonga ithomalalise umdla wabantu abadala wokuzilolonga.
Xa kuthelekiswa nezizukulwana eziselula, abantu abadala badla ngokuba nexesha elininzi lokuphumla, kunye nezimo zengqondo zokusetyenziswa eziguqukayo kunye nemilinganiselo yokhuseleko yobomi ebanzi, umdla wabo wokuzilolonga kunye nokugcinwa kwempilo uyanda.Kukho umnqweno okhulayo phakathi kwabantu abadala wokubandakanyeka kumaziko ezemidlalo agxile kwintengiso.Ngaphandle koku, izibonelelo zempilo azifane zibonelele abantu abadala.Nangona kunjalo, ngokuchasene nemeko yabantu abalupheleyo, abantu abaphezulu baba liqela elikhulu labathengi, kwaye imfuno yabo yokufikelela kwezi ndawo zemidlalo yentengiso kufuneka yamkelwe.
Ukwaliwa kokungena ngokusekelwe kwimida yobudala edlulileyo, kunye nezithintelo ezinxulumene neminyaka ethintela ukuhlaziywa, kubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba iindawo ezininzi zemidlalo azilungele abaxhasi abadala abadala.Ngelixa iyaqondakala into yokuba abaqhubi banokuba neenkxalabo malunga neengozi ezibandakanyekileyo ekusingatheni abantu abadala - iingozi ezinokuthi zibe kho kunye nokwenzakala ngexesha lokuzilolonga, kunye nobungozi obukhoyo obunxulunyaniswa nezixhobo zokuzilolonga - ezo zakhiwo akufuneki zithathe inyathelo lokulumka ngokugqithisileyo malunga nezinto zokomelela kwabantu abadala.Imiceli mngeni abajongene nayo abantu abadala abalupheleyo ekuzibandakanyeni nolawulo lwempilo entle ayinakutyeshelwa.Kukho imfuneko engxamisekileyo yokuphonononga kunye nokuphuhlisa izisombululo zale ndawo.
Okwangoku, ukwamkela abantu abadala kumaziko ezemidlalo asekelwe kwingeniso kuzisa imiceli mngeni, kodwa kukwathwala namathuba.Kwelinye icala, ukuphumeza izikhuselo ezisulungekileyo kunokuquka ukubonelela ngokhokelo lobuchule olulungiselelwe iimfuno zabantu abadala, ukubonisana namalungu eentsapho zabo, nokutyikitya izivumelwano.Abaqhubi banokuzisa imilinganiselo efana nokudala izicwangciso zokuzilolonga eziyilwe ngokwenzululwazi ngokusekelwe kwidatha yereferensi, ukufaka izilumkiso zokhuseleko kwiindawo zokuzilolonga, njalo njalo, ukunciphisa iingozi ezinokubakho zokhuseleko ngokufanelekileyo.Ngaphezu koko, abasemagunyeni abafanelekileyo kufuneka basebenze ukucokisa imithetho nemimiselo ukuze babelane ngoxanduva, kucuthwe iinkxalabo zabaqhubi.Okwangoku, ukuphulaphula iimfuno kunye neengcebiso zabantu abadala abadala kunokukhokelela kwiindlela ezintsha zenkonzo kunye neteknoloji, kunye nokuphuhliswa kwezixhobo zokufaneleka ezifanelekileyo kwiimeko zempilo yabantu abadala.Abantu abadala ngokwabo bafanele baqwalasele ngenyameko izikhumbuzo zobungozi ejimini kwaye benze ukhetho olusekelwe kwiimeko zabo zobuqu, ukulawula ixesha lokuzilolonga kunye nokwamkela iindlela zenzululwazi, njengoko ekugqibeleni benoxanduva lokuphepha iingozi zokhuseleko.
Amaziko okuqeqeshelwa ukuba sempilweni akufuneki agcine iingcango zawo zivaliwe kubantu abadala;akufuneki bashiywe ngasemva kwiliza lokuqina kwelizwe lonke.Umzi-mveliso wokuqina komzimba ophezulu umele imarike “yolwandle oluluhlaza” olungasetyenziswanga, kunye nokwandisa ingqiqo yenzuzo, ulonwabo, kunye nokhuseleko phakathi kwabantu abadala abadala kufanele ukuhoywa ngabo bonke abachaphazelekayo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-22-2024